Well guys I know heading of blog is quite tempting...tempting enough for you to atleast read few lines :)...Often guys wonder how to catch a girl's attention...we often end up doing stupid things to get their attention..I know this very well for me myself being one of you...My experience have taught me few things about Girl's and I am more than happy to share with you and I will be delighted if it work's for you.
Ways to find if she is taking any interest in you.
a) Taking a break while talking :- Use this trick when you are in a group. All are just hanging out together and you are trying to make a conversation with this Girl [One for whom u are vying for attention :) ]...now picture this scenario you are talking to her and she is pretends that she is listening..now in such situation all you to have to do is divert her mind for a brief second..you can do that by saying "Oh what's that??" "Is that really SRK's new hair style?"..something similar to this...once ur diversion works..you stop talking about what you were talking previously..if she insists on you to finish your first story then she is taking interest in you and probably you have a chance :)..if she forgets to ask you about your first topic then it means she was never paying any interest in you :(....
Of course you have to keep in mind that you have to pick a topic which is interesting in the first place..if you are discussing sports with your girl [ not many girls are interested in sports except few] then you can't blame her for not taking interest.
b) Theory of Headlights :- This is the simple funda. You leave your bike's headlight On, in a broad day light and check out how many girl's show you sign of headlight On...from this, atleast you will know that she notices :)...I found it the most safest way of finding out...you can always smile to them and acknowledge… so next time when you see her..you can talk to her :)
c) Taking time :- Most common mistake guys do is they straight away try to impress girl's by boasting about themselves. There are other guys in the group who are trying to do the same thing...everyone is trying to out-do eachother...the best thing to do in such circumstances is be patient...let others try meanwhile you can do some groundwork..like finding out what she likes..whether she is into novel's..who's favourite author..who's her favourite actor? and likewise other thing's of her interest.
A girl enjoys a company of those who can talk to them confidently and those who can talk something interesting. So taking time to find out her likes and dislikes helps immensely :).
d) Curiosity :- Women tend to have tendency to be curious about things. Specially Girls are always curious about boys. So try to be a mystery to her. Tell few things about you and let few things come out by its own. if you make them curious then you are forcing them to think about you even if you are not around them...If a girl is thinking about you then you are half way there :)
e) White shirt and blue jeans :- I really have no idea but I have been told by countless girls that they love this combination. So guys if you are going on your 1st date and it is the safest thing to wear which she will notice instantly :)
f)Honest :- Let's face it if you are honest to a girl then it's more easier for her to trust you. Like if you are not good in studies then you be honest and tell her that you are not good in studies...We always find such things a bit embarrassing to admit but trust me once you overcome initial hitch it becomes much easier to be around them.
